Adventures in being a Write-In Host

This is the 3rd year I've been a write in host and my 4th year doing NaNoWriMo. Every year, i learn new things. Every year there are new challenges to overcome, new tactics to acquire. Every year, i have to learn how to overcome my weaknesses, or how to shore them up with other people's strengths. It has opened my eyes to a lot of things regardless of whether i want to acknowledge them or not. The following is a list of the advice that i have developed over time to have a great Write In and things i wish i had known before I ever agreed to be a Write In Host. So, after you've posted something on the forum...

1. Be the Leader: Be flexible enough that you can roll with any problems that arise, but not so flimsy that people walk all over you. By coming to your write in, they're expecting you to lead it. So be ready to lead (and have fun with it). Think kindergarden teacher style.
2. Don't take yourself too seriously. Make fun of yourself, other people in the room, the whole nano experience. But don't take things too far. If you accidentally insult someone, sincerely apologize.
3. Have a ton of energy and be encouraging: I spontaneously break into dance and i'm always bouncing around to check on people. Just don't let the Write in get sleepy and don't let people fade from notice. If someone's stuck, take some time to see if you can give them ideas. 
4. Smile as much as you can. New comers are often timid and uncertain. Shaking hands with them and greeting them individually can often break the ice. Look for people hovering around the edges, often times behind you. If you have younger kids in your group, introduce yourself to their parents if they're there. 
5. Have a set of introductory questions: My favorites are:
1. Your name
2. What you do to pay the bills (and or pass the non NaNo-ing time)
3. Your NaNo experiance or lack there of or how they heard about NaNo
4. Your highschool mascott - for something random to get people talking. 
6. Have people helping you: I have always had two helpers. One who's good with technical questions and one that's good with plot questions. That way i can focus on being the cheer leader and being the diplomat for conflicts which will arise, trust me. 
7. HAVE A PLAN: People will show up late, so don't expect to get started on time. Know ahead of time if everyone just wants to put their head down and write (i'm personally not a fan of this method, but whatever works for you). If you're doing Word Wars - know how long each word war will be, and plan for breaks. Know what your prizes will be and how to determine who will win. A lot can get written in short little sprints. 
8. Be polite but firm when there's turbulence: Cram a lot of bodies into a small area, there's bound to be some friction. Get the story from both sides, then find a compromise. Handle any uncomfortable subjects privately with the individual. There is no need to embarrass anyone. 
9. Know your Location: Work with the manager directly for scheduling and resource requirements. Don't just surprise them by showing up and expecting to be accommodated. Also, with a lot of people, a lot of laptops and a lot of power needed, know where your outlets are and bring power strips and extension chords as appropriate. You might want to check with the manager about AC too, cause those laptops put out a ton of heat. Also: 
1. Clean up after yourself. A sure fire way to not be invited back is leaving the place a mess. If you move tables, move them back, clear off any trash etc. 
2. Have a sign or a way for other NaNo people to identify you: The ducks aren't always enough, so make your location clear
10. Be respectful of everyone's individual writing style: This is one that I'm huge on. You can't think "it's my way or the highway" when it comes to writing.  There's no perfect universal formula for writing a good story. Everyone needs to find their method and if it's not your way, it's ok! Also, don't let others make newcomers think one way is superior, cause it might not be the best way for them. Actually, just being respectful in general will get you a long way. 

Other things to think about:

• A group roster (for networking purposes)
• Ducks (or your area's mascot/identifier)
• Identifying Newbies and Veterans
• Plotters vs Pantsers (please don't make it a rivalry)
• Any fund raising you want to do

The best part about the last several years is the experiences. I wouldn't trade the last 4 NaNo's for anything. Even when i was stressed out and thinking about quitting, these write ins kept me going. Just as I love passing on NaNo to people who've never heard about it, now i have advice to give to those who are looking to start out on their own Write Ins. I started with no rules, and only a glimmer of an idea of what to do for a write in. Now we've grown from a small handful of people to almost 30. It's fun, there's lots of laughter and i can't wait for the year to begin. 

Box breaking

My company is very conservative when it comes to their graphics. From my desk i can see at least ten examples of the kinds of things they like. Orderly, simple, nothing too extravagant, too bright, or different from the layouts they have used since the 1960s.

The annual calendar had been done by the same lady for at least 10 years and each year, she just kept the same layout and just changed the banner graphic. They were...nice. Not amazing, but nice.

When i came on board for last year's calendar, i started playing around without being asked. When i came across the idea to put the graphic behind the calendar and have the date squares be just slightly translucent...all of a sudden, they were amazed. It was something they'd never considered before and they LIKED IT!

This year, something similar happened. They had two ideas and wanted some examples of different ways to go about it. So i gave them what they wanted. 2 examples and some simple variations.

My design :) Planet Saturn with the
Cassini sattelite in orbit. 

And then, something struck me. A perfect design was already there, i just had to clear away what wasn't working (read: the standby layout). So i started playing around...again without being asked. I split the months into two 6-month sections for the top and the bottom. Then i put the graphic all the way across the back, and year and other graphics in the middle. The result was really cool. I liked it. Two co-workers liked it. Boyfriend Jon liked it.

So i went to the presentation meeting and handed them what they asked for. They hummed and hawed over it for a few minutes until i offered my take on the design. It didn't take long for them to agree that my design was their favorite with some minor tweaks, which i had expected to be brought up. But overall they loved it. which makes me so happy.

So now, the Saturn planet is being re-done for color correctness, and the rings will be cleaned up but then i'll start adding the dates, holidays and other necessary information. It's shaping up to be a very pretty year :)

Anxiously Awaiting

NaNo is coming! NaNo is coming!

The countdown has reached 6.5 days. Less than a week to go. Butterflies are beginning to wake up in my stomach, my dreams start to inspire tiny little tidbits of my future story, research is now boring and i really just want to get started!

I mean really, i can only read so much about real history before i want to start messing around with what might have caused certain events. I don't even mind putting my 70wpm typing skills to use transcribing videos for my mom's deaf student, because it's awesome practice for nano.

My excitement makes my foot tap when i look at any calendar, my voice shows obvious enthusiasm when talking about it with other people, even if they're non NaNo-ers. Its on my mind almost non stop.

Why can't it just be here already?!

On the plus side, this year's novel is based off of a plot bunny that spawned itself all the way back in 2008. I even wrote about 5,000 words of it on non NaNo time. The basis is solid, and the characters are strong, but those 5k words will be great to inspire the new beginning. In a sense, my first three days are almost already written. I just have to re-type them in a different pattern and tuck in a few changes here and there.

My fingers are ichy. Come on November!

Getting swept up

You know the feeling that time slows down the closer it draws to an exciting event. Yeah, that's not happening for me.

So much is going on that i'm trying to just relax and flow with it. Boyfriend Jon is left on a jet plane again last night to go back to California again. He's going to be gone all weekend. I'm a little bit, just a tiny little bit, glad he's going to be gone. Sure i'll miss him like crazy and probably take a flying leap into his arms when he comes home, but i have so much to do this weekend.

Last year, i slid myself into position to do a graphics project at work, designing the next year's company poster. I came in with 2 weeks to deadline and the team and I knocked it out of the ballpark. People are still (it's october) commenting to me about how much they love the calendar and wanting to know if i'm going to be working on it again.

I'm excited to say, I am. :D

I got the go ahead yesterday to start designing the 2012 calendar. More specifically, i got the go ahead to play around with 4-6 different options to give the team options to choose from before we pick one and get to work. There's a bunch things i really want to do differently. I want to take chances and try completely different layouts. The catch is that my company and the other members of the team are a lot more conservative than i am. So i'm limited in how much i can change things. But sometimes, things just work out for me.

One of the designs involves the beautiful planet Saturn, one of my favorites to mimic for digitial work. I plan on making that the one i root for (and maybe tweak to look a little bit nicer). But i also feel compelled to make a drastic change to the layout to allow for a completely different perspective than the rest of the team is expecting.

Honestly, i could sit and learn from Photoshop tutorials all day long and never be bored. It is a serious stress relief to me. Even if i'm having trouble with the steps, i still can't tear myself way from it. And it's the best feeling in the world to finally get it right. Triumph will be mine.

To give the calendar a completely different feel from last year, i even get to learn new techniques. It's going to be so much fun. And, i'm getting paid for this. Best weekend ever!

NaNo 20 questions featuring Boyfriend Jon

Sorry in advance for the very long post those of you who don't follow NaNoWriMo. 

I went to a plot workshop over the weekend with Boyfriend Jon. One of the biggest things we took away was the concept of writing down the conditions under which we each write best. Our most productive writing environment. It quickly became evident that we had two very different writing styles. But it was also good, because now we know how to help each other. Some of his answers were completely surprising to me. He's going to post this over at his blog too. 

1. In what location do you write best?

Anne: I can write pretty much anywhere. I can be productive writing at home, but it's harder because that seems to be the only time of year that I actually want to fold laundry. Anything to procrastinate. So often times, I leave and crash at Boyfriend Jon's place or at a quite location. Coffee shops and bookstores usually have too much stimulus since I'm one of those people that talks to everyone. Other than that, specifics don't matter. Floor, couch, desk....I’m flexible.

Jon: I've tried writing in a variety of places, but I've done my best at home on my couch, or lying face down in bed. I've tried coffee shops, but I'm usually too distracted or worried about being kicked out. My first year of NaNo I wrote the majority of my novel on the bus to and from work; not easy in the snow!

2. When is the best time for you to write?

Anne: I write very well when I can sit and be uninterrupted for a while. But I guess my best breakthroughs come either when I first get up in the morning or in the later evening; 7-12pm or so. Don't tell my boss but sometimes my lunch hour of writing goes a little longer than it should. 

Jon: My best hours are usually after 10pm. There's nothing more satisfying than burning some midnight oil, especially when the words are just flowing. There's also less distractions: either I keep writing or I go to sleep. When I write during the day, I'm much more likely to take long breaks, or work on some other projects.

3. How do you structure your writing time? Do you prefer short sprints or long marathons?

Anne: I can do both, it mostly depends on what I’m writing about. If I’m trudging through some tedious dialogue, I have to take it in sprints or I get sick of it. But when writing action, I can't just stop mid jump kick!

Jon: I need the long haul. I usually spend the beginning of every writing session reviewing what I wrote the last time, and when I'm done writing I review what I just wrote. Sometimes I even leave notes for myself for when I sit back down. That overhead doesn't lend itself to short sprints: when I do write in short bursts, say on the bus, I usually lose a lot of time trying to get myself into character.

4. Any other environmental factors? Light? Temperature? Noise level?

Anne: My eyes start to hurt if the only lighting is my laptop screen. Also, I rarely turn on my heater, so I prefer to have it cold enough to need my slippers and maybe a light blanket or else I'll start getting sleepy. One other item that always seems to surprise people is that I have to have some background noise. I'm not talking music or white noise; but I flip on some uninteresting TV show and leave it on in the background. And somehow, I’m able to ignore it and write. 

Jon: I prefer writing in the dark, maybe a single lamp, but that's mostly so I can see any written notes. If it's too cold I get jumpy and distracted, but then again, too warm and I'm just as likely to take a nap, especially if I'm working in bed. Slightly cool air with a blanket works for me. As for noise: the closer to silence the better.

5. Do you like to listen to music while you write? If so, what kind?

Anne: Ironically, I have a lot of trouble listening to music while I write. Lyrics end up getting written into my story and often times I get some mellow calm music when I have a really intense scene to write. Then I spend ten minutes trying to find the right music for the scene and by the time I get back to being able to write, I’ve forgotten what I was going to write. Occasionally I’ll get lucky with instrumental music like Spanish guitars or soundtrack music, but overall...I just put the TV on and ignore it. Someone once suggested that I get a white noise machine and try that....but those suckers are expensive. 

Jon: I can't listen to anything with lyrics while I'm actually writing. But I'm a big fan of instrumental music, especially electronica and movie soundtracks. I've a selection of soundtracks I return to regularly while writing: Gladiator, The Lord of the Rings, or more recently the Tron sequel. I used to think listening to movie soundtracks would distract me; far from it. I usually listen to the music just barely above a whisper, they way background music should be. But I'll admit, sometimes, right before writing session I'll listen to a playlist of loud, up-tempo, and high-energy rock music to get me in "writing shape".

6. Do you like to write with others around you, or do you prefer to fly solo?

Anne: I'm definitely a social person. I like to have other people nearby that are doing either the same thing or something quiet so I can concentrate. It's something about the camaraderie that I like. But I can write just fine on my own. 

Jon: I honestly prefer to write alone. I need time to hem and haw over my words, talk myself through scenes, or otherwise not have to worry about anyone else around me. I don't get much writing done at social writing functions: I'm usually way too interested in hearing about other's stories, or bouncing ideas off the other writers.

7. Do you keep any drinks or snacks handy?

Anne: I'm a pumpkin seed fanatic. I generally fill a gallon bag after Halloween with baked pumpkin seeds...and they're gone in a couple of weeks. That and my handy camelback water bottle and a fresh supply of ice cold water. I avoid caffeine in general, but I drink a cup first thing in the morning during NaNo so that I’m not falling asleep at my desk from burning both ends of the candle. 

Jon: Nothing in particular. I just try to avoid anything that will get my hands sticky. I keep a water bottle close by, and take breaks to go eat elsewhere.

8. What's your preferred writing medium? Are you on the computer, or rocking the old school pen and paper?

Anne: I type about 70 words per minute. My mom was a stickler for home row being a computer teacher so the computer is natural for me. I haven't had my laptop very long and you can already see the rub marks on the spacebar from my right thumb. 

Jon: Computer. I grew up writing on the computer, it's just too powerful a tool for editing. I'll write a lot of notes on paper, but usually those get transcribed if I'm really serious about them. The bulk of my writing gets done on a little netbook with a whopping 14 hour battery: I can use it all day without worrying about finding juice.

9. So you use the computer, which program?

Anne: Microsoft Word is good enough for me. I already know all of the formatting hot keys, and when I maximize the screen, it eliminates distractions. So I never needed a special program. The only thing i wish Word had was a bigger buffer at the bottom so i don't run into the bottom of the screen. I feel like my words start getting crowded when they get too close to the bottom. They need room to breathe. 

Jon: I've tried a bunch of writing programs, even written some of my own. When it comes to straight-up, get-it-down-on-paper writing, I use a free program called FocusWriter. It let's me have a full screen with a large font, just a paragraph or two on the page at a time so I don't get the urge to edit. It also lets you set and track writing goals, so you can see when you've hit your quotas for the day.

10. Do you allow yourself access to the Internet? Do you find it to be a distraction?

Anne: I have so much trouble turning my internet on and off...that I just leave it on and close down all windows except the one I’m writing in. Also, I back up my document to Google Docs so I need to be able to paste it over at a moment's notice in case I need advice from my sounding board. 

Jon: When I'm on the netbook, I usually turn off the WiFi while I'm writing. But, occasionally I'll need to look something up, something I can't just put in a placeholder for, and then I try to keep myself limited to research. I do however, like to keep tabs open to various name generator sites, just in case I need a quick name.

11. Do you have any other must haves? Good-luck writing charms?

Anne: I have one of those tray tables from As Seen On TV. It's very helpful for my posture to lean back in the sofa and not have to reach far for my laptop keyboard. Also I have to have something to put my hair up, even if it's a pencil. If it's down, I’ll play with it and effectively not type. 

Jon: My feet get cold. I have a pair of old man house slippers that I've adopted as my official writing shoes. They give me about a 20% boost to my word counts.

12. How long have you been doing NaNo? Why did you start?

Anne: This will be my 4th year in the NaNoWriMo team. My 3rd as a Write In Host. I started because my best friend told me it would be great and that it would be great for me. Of course that was the year he abandoned NaNo (silly things like 400 level physics classes...psh!). However, he was right. The community, the friendly competition, the built in cheering squad, it all worked for me. And that was the first time I had EVER actually finished a novel. After that, I was hooked. 

Jon: Four years: I started the same year as Anne. I've been writing creatively with my friends for years, and that October I had an idea for a story much longer than anything else I'd ever dreamt up. I don't remember how I found out about NaNo, but I remember really pushing myself that year.

13. Do you like to use writing prompts?

Anne: I love writing prompts, but only when I get them before or after NaNo. They have a tendency to spawn plot bunnies like nobody's business. Three of my stories came out of plot bunnies that just grew and grew until they became fully fledged ideas. I even managed to weave plot bunnies in a few more to those stories. They're great devices to get the creative juices flowing, but I have to be careful that I don't drown in them. 

Jon: Yes and no. I've never found them to help me get further along in my own works, or even get me in the mood to write. But I do enjoy the exercise, if anything I love taking a breath from whatever I'm knee-deep in and just write something else for a change.

14. Every writer hits a creative wall now and again. What are your top three techniques for getting unstuck?

Anne: 1) I have to talk it out. Since other NaNo-ers are fully engulfed in their stories, I have a couple of non-NaNo-er friends who are willing to keep up with my story and offer advice to help get me unstuck. Sometimes the tiniest phrase in the conversation jars my roadblock loose. 2) If my sounding boards are unavailable, I walk away from my computer and do some mundane task. Last year, I had a eureka! moment while scrubbing my tub. And 3) if all else fails, I skip ahead. 

Jon: First, I sit back and recall what all of the characters are doing at that particular moment in the story, or what they were doing the last time the reader saw them. That usually gives me a few new openings. Secondly, I get up and act out the scene. Standing up, moving around, and saying the dialogue out loud helps me better grasp what the scene is trying to accomplish. Finally, if I’m still stuck, I’ll just start writing completely out of character, sometimes even out of genre. It doesn’t take long before I say to myself: “Of course the character wouldn’t do X, they’d do Y instead.”

15. Do you like to plot out your story in advance, or do you write more by the seat of your pants?

Anne: I'm about 90% Pantsing and 10% plotting. I know my characters very well, and set up the setting, and I have a handful of bullet points that I want to cover before I reach the end. I think my biggest problem is that I don't think out the climax at all. I have gotten to Thanksgiving Day and not had a clue how my story was going to end. That makes for one exciting Turkey day. 

Jon: I've been writing creatively for about five years now, mostly short stories, and I've experimented with a variety of ways at approaching writing itself. When I pants a story, I end up with five pages about a goat chewing cud. So I've come up with a level of planning that I'm comfortable with. I write out an outline with all of the scenes I want, just a one-liner like “introduce Hester”, or “reveal about the cat”. Afterward, if I don't have enough scenes to make a story, I flesh out in between scenes to pace everything appropriately. Then, each writing session I look ahead a few scenes in the outline and make sure they still make sense with what I’ve been already writing. I usually end up changing 10-40% of the outline as I go along, as add, delete, or move scenes.


16. What aspect of writing do you think you are best at? Worst? 

Anne: My strength is writing intense, thrilling scenes. Also I think i do a good job of not having characters that are invincible emotionally and physically. My weakness is definitely dialogue. Many of my characters end up being the brooding quiet type. Sometimes i can work it to my advanage, but most often not. 
Jon: Pacing, and keeping the story interesting. I want to like my own writing, and if I can’t get excited about a piece, then I need to fix it. Because I plot and plan so much, I also like to think that I give readers plenty of things to look out for, or rewards for even moderately reasonable attention. It bothers me when I read stories that have so little long-term arcs, or so much unnecessary fluff, that the story could have been pared in half, without damage to the plot or the characters’ development. But all that planning and plotting has a downside: it’s sometimes hard for me to keep track of exactly what I have and haven’t said, and judging how much the reader can reasonably be expected to remember. I have it all in my head, often many versions, and combined with minimal descriptions, sometimes I don’t say enough and the reader gets lost. A scene that makes perfect sense to me is confusing to the reader, because of information I’ve forgotten to emphasize or even put down in the first place.

17. What inspires you to write? What inspires what you write?

Anne: I write because I have an overactive imagination. It's a way to get all the random images I see in my mind's eye out so I have time to make sense of them. Also I come from a long line of Italian story tellers. The need to entertain has always been strong. In addition to an overactive imagination, I have an overdeveloped sense of justice. And I know in this world, too often the bad guy goes free. So it gives me immense satisfaction to have my villains get their comeuppance. 

Jon: Sometimes I having noting but a bit of dialog, or single image in mind, that I want to see, that I want to justify existing. Then the exercise is to figure out a story that will make that dialogue or image happen and make sense. I don’t care about getting published, or making money. I think everyone should so something creative, not professionaly, but just well enough to share with friends. As for what inspires my writing: real life, books, movies, video games, even some of my stranger dreams. I rate my media not just on it’s own merits, but if after experiencing it all I can think about is doing something creative. I’ll watch a terrible movie and call it great if afterward I feel like writing.


18. How does competition affect your writing? 

Anne: I'm the youngest of four children and I grew up in a neighborhood full of boys. To say I’m competitive is an understatement of a major degree. I don't hate other people when they win, but I’m still gonna do my darndest to come out on top. I think my original friendly competition (along with a healthy dose of flirting) with Boyfriend Jon is what got me through my first year. Without that added incentive, NaNos 2-4 might never have been. 

Jon: I’ll admit, the first two years of NaNo I enjoyed competing with Anne, and keeping up a playful game of chase on the website. Last year I wanted to hit 100k for me and for my story, it wasn’t a matter of competing with anyone but my own goals. I just want to write the stories, I’m doing it for me. I’m not competing with anyone.


19. What incentives do you have for completing NaNoWriMo this year?

Anne: The same ones I did the other years. A pedicure and a foot massage - one of the few girly indulgences that melts me completely. Also, Boyfriend Jon and I might have a little bet going on, but I’ll leave that to the imagination. 

Jon: I’ve been editing last year’s novel for six months now. This year, NaNo is almost a fun break from that, a chance to explore some of the other ideas I’ve left on the back burner for a while.

20. Are you planning on trying anything new this year?

Anne: This year, in addition to finishing my story again, I’m aiming for 60k words. I definitely think it's doable and I think it will give me enough room to flesh out my story adequately. Also as a Write In Host, I’m starting a Black Friday Write in to counteract the lost time on Thanksgiving Day. Hopefully that will be a big enough hit that we can make it an annual event. 

Jon: I’m going to write two independent short stories instead of a single novel this year. I’ve got one idea I really want to put down, and it’s rare I can think of something that can be so self-contained. But also I want to continue my series with the next short story so I have something to look at while I give my novel a breather. Practically speaking, I’m also trying to have a more scheduled writing time, something I can turn into a habit to keep after the month ends.


As a side note, this "interview" was conducted on a website called http://willyou.typewith.me/. It allows multiple collaborators to write on the same document at the same time. We kept having trouble with it shutting down but i think that was a problem with my internet connection and not the site itself. There's no way to save the document, so copy and paste to a word processor often.  

NaNo terms explained: Plotter vs Panster

In Nano, there are two extremes in methods of writing your story. This will be my third year of hosting a Write-In. And the majority of writers that i have witnessed, lean one way or the other. Very few have ever fallen in the middle. I have seen great stories produced by both sides of the spectrum, so i can honestly say that i don't believe one way is better than the other. It's all up to the writer. 

Plotters- These are the folks that need to carefully lay out their plotline before a single word of the story ever gets written down. It's their map, blueprint, whatever you want to call it. The story is not ridged and boring when done this way since even the outline comes out of their imagination (or memory if the genre calls for it). If you think of it like a building...they know when they lay the first brick what the structure will look like when they're done. 

Pantsers- These people find plotting everything out before hand too restrictive. They write by the seat of their pants the whole way. Most often, they know a few details about their story (like the main characters) and a general idea of some bullet points that they'd like to have happen along the way, but the rest is a mystery at the beginning. Often times, somewhere, the story will take a turn that the just did not see coming and they'll follow it to completion. I've heard this type of writing called "Organic" before. It might seem like this method would just lead to rambling on for 10k words, but it also makes for some really interesting tangents. 

Think about it this way: if you're in a park or a garden, and you're not required to walk on the path, can you still reach the same destination? Of course this bars any unforeseen lava pits or rabid bunnies that will pelt you with nuts if you leave the path. 

My point is: Don't let anyone tell you that one way is better than the other.  You need to try which ever one seems more natural for you. Maybe you fall somewhere in the middle  or closer to one way or the other. But don't force yourself to follow a set path if it doesn't work. You're not like everyone else, so why would your writing be?

Me? I'm definitively a Pantser. The one time i tried to plan out a whole new world and a story that would fit into this one idea i had...i was miserable the whole time. I have never come so close to quitting. I kept realizing that my characters would never behave the way i needed them to, and the story just wouldn't work, no matter how much i tweaked the alien planet they were on. It was frustrating beyond belief. In retrospect, if i had followed where the story would have gone instead of where i wanted it to go, i think i could have salvaged the story. 

However the first time i did NaNo, i was so limited on time that i wasn't able to plot. My main goal was to reach the 50k line before the deadline passed. I had 2 characters, and a two sentence description of the overall story arc. So my story just grew. I'm not saying it was easy. At Thanksgiving dinner, i seized my cousin by the shoulders and frantically told her i had NO climax what-so-ever. But thanks to help from several people, i passed the goal early and even, for the first time in my life, FINISHED the story. It was a thrill like i had never experienced before. It kept making me want to go back for more. 

This will be my 4th NaNoWriMo and i cannot wait for it to start. 

When left unattended....

Boyfriend Jon was gone all weekend with his family, leaving me to my own devices which may or may not have been a good idea. Turns out my life is totally boring without him around.

Friday, i went to see my college buddy's brand new, just got the keys condo....of which they had already tore out the carpet and tile. They were laying in snap together fake wood flooring and my girlfriend was trying to use a floor filler on the very much destroyed chip-crete floor next to the entryway. Upon suggesting that she use floor leveler for that much area, we realized all of the chip-crete was a loss thanks to the jackhammer when the tile was removed. I mean, we were moving it around with our hands it was soo loose and cracked. So i drove her to Lowes and made sure she got the right stuff. Because of the 3 hour cure time, we decided to do some demolition instead so she handed me a hammer and we got to work. 

Her dad was impressed with my knowledge of home repair. I think originally he thought i would be useless because he tried to explain to me how to paint with a roller. (eye roll) Thankfully, we never ended up getting around to painting and i was able to keep my mouth shut from "oh please there's easier ways to do that." Eventually, through helping out with just about every problem he was having to teaching my girlfriend tricks to working with his tools...we found a respect for each other, craftsmen to craftswoman. We even got to talking about how to go about doing the crown molding and running a water line for a fridge with an ice maker.  

But by 5pm, i was dead tired from taking Boyfriend Jon to the airport at O-dark-thirty. So i went home.....ish. I stopped by target with an idea to cheer Boyfriend Jon up when he got home. I bought a black shirt, some iron on white letters and some red and glow in the dark shirt paint. I made my self a I (heart) My Geek tshirt to pick him up from the airport in...and then because it's me... i made it glow in the dark too. :D

I spent all day Saturday, doing laundry, doing the shirt project, cleaning and topped it off with making myself my favorite dinner. Let me just say...the shirt turned out AWESOME.

It only took me most of a day, but Big Bang Theory Season 4 was another winner. Didn't see some of those jokes coming and i like the addition of Amy Farafowler to the cast. But it was so SHORT! i felt like very little happened this season and the obligatory "cliff hanger" for the season was less than thrilling.
Also...TEAM LENARD AND PENNY!

What can i say? I root for the underdog.